| | spirit, even when you are offended or whatever. Case in point, perhaps things were |
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| said at a June meeting that should not have been said. Maybe they should have been |
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| followed up with a phone call on part of the Commissioners, or perhaps Mr. Robbins |
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| should have followed up with a phone call before he went to his website. Maybe a |
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| facilitator would be able to help them over this hump. She noted they sort of have a |
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| "Hatfield/McCoy" situation or feeling that is developing here and that is not good for |
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| them, it's not good the City and maybe that would be a neutral ground on which they |
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| all could meet and get this resolved. |
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| Chairperson Kaiser pointed out whatever thoughts and things they share tonight, they |
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| are not going to make any decisions on. The one thing that is in his mind about how |
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| far they can take this merging of the minds between these two bodies or any bodies, is |
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| that one body is composed of elected officials and that dictates an approach to what |
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| happens in their decision making that never dictates what the Planning Commission |
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| does. He stated he has been involved in politics for over twenty years and he is |
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| committed to the notion that elected officials, because of the concern for re-election, a |
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| concern of responding to those voters immediately in front of them, will never |
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| approach it the way the Planning Commission does. He is not saying, since this is a |
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| representative democracy, including the City of Rochester Hills, so he is not here to |
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| say "we're better than they are" or "they are better than us" because our government |
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| says we have elected officials. They are driven by different motives. Most of them |
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| are driven by the need to be re-elected. Most of them are greatly driven by an |
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| over-expectation of the power they should have and an over-assessment of the power |
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| they do have. He clearly excepts Ms. Hill from that category. He excepts Mr. Gaber |
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| from that category. He did not think he excepts any other representative we've had |
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| on this body as long as he's been here from that category. Those two have been so |
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| exemplary in their difference from that "run of the mill politician" that he holds them in |
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| great respect and esteem. Mr. Gaber regularly said on this record "when I'm here, I |
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| understand my job and the hat I have to wear, but when I go to Council, I'm a |
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| different ball game and I know it. I'm an elected representative of a certain district or |
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| at large and I have to respond to those dynamics, which I don't have to do here". |
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| Chairperson Kaiser noted whether they can, in a joint meeting, divest themselves of |
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| that realty, he did not know. |
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| Mrs. Potere stated perhaps she had misspoke herself. Maybe it is not a merging of |
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| the minds, but it would more of a "Miss Manners" session. There was an elected |
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| official that she had an opportunity to work with several years ago, and she lost her |
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| patience with that person and finally told her that she may not have ever graduated |
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| from charm school, but she did not have to remind us every time she opened her |
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| mouth. She thought that was where they had to go with this. She understood they |
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| come from a different position than Planning Commission does; they have a different |
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| obligation as being elected; but there is a certain level of civility that has to be |
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| maintained. That is all she is asking. |
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